Blog posts on college admissions by Arjun Seth

Breaking Free from the Weight of Expectations
College Life, Student Success Arjun Seth College Life, Student Success Arjun Seth

Breaking Free from the Weight of Expectations

As high school graduates prepare for life at college, it is crucial to take a step back and critically examine the narrative that has shaped our lives.

In the journey toward college, many high school graduates are burdened by the weight of their own stories. From an early age, we absorb societal expectations and the desires of our parents, which become integral parts of our story. We are told who we should be, how we should act, what we should desire, and what we should fear. These ideas permeate our subconscious, shaping our decisions, self-perception, behavior, and aspirations. However, it is important to question whether these expectations truly align with our authentic selves and our individual passions and aspirations. This article will explore the consequences of taking our story too seriously and discuss how embracing authenticity can lead to a more fulfilling college experience and a sense of personal liberation.

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How to overcome the fear of failure
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How to overcome the fear of failure

Fear of failure is an emotion that arises from losing something we cling to. When we constantly think about achieving a particular outcome or have a deep-seated desire for something, we can become afraid of not getting it. This fear can be particularly strong when we feel like our future success depends on achieving a particular outcome, such as getting into a dream school.

The fear of disappointing others can be a significant contributor to this fear, especially in high-stress situations such as college admissions. Social pressure and the need to maintain a particular image can also create fear of failure. However, this fear can create a lot of stress and anxiety, making it harder to achieve our goals.

It's essential to remember that setbacks can provide valuable opportunities for growth and development. By focusing on the process of achieving our goals rather than just the outcome, we can reduce the fear of failure and increase our chances of success. As the saying goes, "Either we win, or we learn."

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